FAQ

Clear answers before you begin.

Get More Anal is a private coaching tool for married men who want a more deliberate, attractive, and connected life at home. It is direct by design, but it is not magic and it is not a substitute for professional care.

What does the app actually do?

You talk with an AI coach. The coach helps you sort out what is going on, looks across ten areas of life, and turns the conversation into small tasks you can actually do. Those tasks become the working plan.

Who is it for?

It is built for married men who want to improve the conditions around trust, communication, confidence, attraction, intimacy, and daily follow-through. The app assumes consent, respect, and adult responsibility. It is not for coercion, manipulation, or games.

Will it fix my marriage?

No app can honestly promise that. Get More Anal can help you notice patterns, make cleaner decisions, and practice better behavior. Your wife is a person, not a lever. Results depend on the real relationship, the work you do, and what both people choose.

How do tasks work?

The coach can set tasks during a session after you agree to them. You can also add your own. Some tasks are simple check-offs. Others are daily count tasks, like logging minutes, reps, messages, or another number. The coach can review recent task activity in later sessions.

Are tasks daily?

Some are. A one-off task is something you do once and mark done. A daily task is a repeating check-in. A count task is daily by default because it records one number per day. The point is consistency without turning the app into a complicated project manager.

What does the coach remember?

The coach carries forward durable notes, session summaries, and task progress. It does not need to reread every full transcript forever to be useful. The goal is continuity: names, patterns, commitments, wins, and things worth following up on.

Is my content private?

Conversation, message, note, and task content is encrypted at rest with keys derived per user. Admin tools are intentionally limited: real user confidential content is not browsable from the admin list. As with any hosted app, do not put emergency, illegal, or extremely sensitive material into the system.

Is this therapy?

No. It is coaching software. It can help with reflection, planning, and accountability, but it is not therapy, legal advice, medical advice, or crisis support. If there is abuse, danger, addiction, self-harm, or a mental health emergency, use qualified professional help.

How does billing work?

You can start with a free trial. Billing is handled by Stripe. If you subscribe, Stripe manages the payment method, trial, invoices, and subscription portal. The app syncs subscription status from Stripe.

Will I get emails?

Email features exist in the codebase, but outbound email is currently disabled. That means newsletter welcome emails and daily task digests do not send unless email delivery is explicitly enabled later.